Do I scare you? And if so .. why? No judgement or piling on will come your way. Genuinely asking. Trying to understand why I scare people.
12:19 PM - Sep 21, 2023
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In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
It’s more intimidating than scary, but in the best possible way.
You own your space, you know your worth, the way you speak. You’re a powerhouse. I always learn from you. Thank you.
You own your space, you know your worth, the way you speak. You’re a powerhouse. I always learn from you. Thank you.
07:18 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
I think these days simply being direct makes a lot of people uncomfortable. IDK why, but people are definitely different about that .. I have found.
07:02 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
You never scared me. But before we became best friends, I could feel intimidated. Partly because your frequent subject matter, and the conviction with which you speak on it, are outside my general experience. But taking the time to listen to, and hear you, helped me to get past my own discomfort.
06:16 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response to Mark Kubert, DC.
Great summation. Are you really best friends in real life though? I am just being inquisitive 😊😉
07:01 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
Honestly I admire your ruthlessness when it comes to your convictions. It's hard to face the truth. Are you scary? Not at all. 💯💜♾️
06:15 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
Nah. But if you have to say something to me I know I deserve it.
You're direct. You speak the truth. You speak your truth. Those are admirable qualities Kace. I learn from you every day.
You're direct. You speak the truth. You speak your truth. Those are admirable qualities Kace. I learn from you every day.
02:14 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
Not that I remember. I’ve always deeply admired and respected you. Your view on life is something I’ve always been in awe of ❤️❤️
01:52 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
Nope. Not even a tiny bit. As I’ve mentioned before, you’d fit right in with most of the people I consider friends.
You occasionally make me pause and reassess how I think about things, but I was an educator for 13+ years, so revising my perspective in light of new info is a pretty ingrained habit.
You occasionally make me pause and reassess how I think about things, but I was an educator for 13+ years, so revising my perspective in light of new info is a pretty ingrained habit.
01:19 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
before i understood your style of communication, you did intimidate me (a lot). you speak with such conviction and have this, like, outrageously deep understanding of your power and how to use it. not everyone can do that. for some that might be scary; for me, it was reason to follow you.
01:16 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response to Laura Elsen.
That’s the kindest thing I’ve heard in a long time. Thank you.
01:23 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
You don’t scare me, I enjoy your honesty and enjoy your posts. I followed you on Xwitter, and was glad to find you here! Cheers ✨
01:15 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
Not at all. I appreciate your honesty and your (often) bravery. Facing hard truths about ourselves is hard and scary. It is intimidating to some people. Willingness to be open and challenge ourselves is part of growth.
01:11 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
My experience of you has been of a kindred soul that I have learned a few things from.
01:07 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
NOT ME!!
But I think that's bc if you have something to say to me I won't like I know I'll need to hear it.
Some people fear that.
But I think that's bc if you have something to say to me I won't like I know I'll need to hear it.
Some people fear that.
01:01 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
You do not scare me. You always make me think.
I, too, have changed my perceptions of things because of your comments. I am not the person I was in February. It is a work in progress. But I am willing to do the work.
I, too, have changed my perceptions of things because of your comments. I am not the person I was in February. It is a work in progress. But I am willing to do the work.
12:53 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
Intimidate is a better word. But like not at all in a bad way.. I think it started when I would quote you and make a joke or just be my usual obnoxious self and I took it as disapproval when you didn't give it a like. It's not you, it's me lol
(Good job Roxxy.. over here starting a whole thing..)
(Good job Roxxy.. over here starting a whole thing..)
12:29 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response to Roxxy Riot.
Ohhh no! I probably didn’t even see it bc I’m unmedicated adhd and get so distracted. My apologies!
12:32 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
No. You're not scary. I think maybe it's the hard truths you bring to light that might people feel that way. But that's on them, not you.
12:26 PM - Sep 21, 2023
In response Fruitcaked Kace to their Spout
Yes, but in the best ways because you are a truth teller and you have, in the past, made me change my perception of a thing. When a person can make you change how you see things, that is an intimidating person. But I say that with respect. Change is good, but scary.
12:22 PM - Sep 21, 2023
