Ola
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Don’t be a people-pleaser, there’re too many downsides to it.

— Some will disrespect you
— Some will take advantage of you

You are afraid of rejection?
Let me tell you, preserve your worth.
Conflicts, disagreements, opinions—they're all part of life.
01:08 AM - Nov 01, 2023
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hmmwrites (Heather's version)
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In response to Ola.
Ola, how are you seriously so wise?

I wish my inner voice spoke like you!
03:54 AM - Dec 03, 2023
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Ola
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In response to hmmwrites (Heather's version).
🤗💗
03:54 AM - Dec 03, 2023
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Anne NotOfCleves
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In response to Ola.
I started giving that up in my 40s. By the time I hit 50, I really had it down. I clearly am a slow learner, but I get there eventually.

It’s always been my assumption that growing up the child of an alcoholic in an extended family of alcoholics contributed to at least some of that need to please.
06:54 AM - Nov 01, 2023 (Edited)
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Lawrence Carico
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In response to Ola.
I'm conflicted here. If I agree with you, then I might be a people pleaser. If I'm a people pleaser, then ...
06:06 AM - Nov 01, 2023
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Ola
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In response to Lawrence Carico.
😂😂😂😂
06:23 AM - Nov 01, 2023
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Ola
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In response to Lawrence Carico.
Well, I believe that in certain circumstances, you can disagree with me, and that should be okay with both of us. You cannot possibly agree with me all the time or be afraid of disagreeing with my opinion, right?
06:27 AM - Nov 01, 2023
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