Jon Gordon
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
Good lord, poor kid ugh.
01:55 PM - Dec 05, 2023
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Clarke
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
Very abnormal. Do you like my cat?
01:32 PM - Dec 05, 2023
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Clarke
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
I guess I am abnormal
01:30 PM - Dec 05, 2023
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Susan L
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
I say it all the time…
The control, emotional abuse, toxic patriarchal sickness in our White families (maybe erroneously making that leap here) is the foundation that continues to prop up all of it…White supremacy, Transphobia, Antisemitism, anti-LGBTQ violence, misogyny, all of it.
10:14 AM - Dec 05, 2023
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randy gold
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
At least you tried. people need to hear things a few times before they will think "is it me?", so now one person has told her. If you didn't get fired, keep it up.
09:23 AM - Dec 05, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to randy gold.
This didn't happen to me.
02:01 PM - Dec 05, 2023
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Lorelei La
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
This has been around for a while, but it’s a classic. Is any man cooler than Iggy Pop?
04:54 AM - Dec 05, 2023
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ChrisADED
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
This article was published in early 2020 but for some reason popped up again in my Timeline just yesterday - very timely for this conversation.
04:10 AM - Dec 05, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to ChrisADED.
Yes, an excellent article. Thanks for sharing.
02:02 PM - Dec 05, 2023
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Mary Ann Lyons
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
This made me so sad 😞. What a horrible message to that little boy. Not even the butterfly vs. the skull, but that she would be so dismissive of his stated feelings.
09:09 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to Mary Ann Lyons.
It breaks my heart. 💔
09:11 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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justanotherpam
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
I can't stand the way so many people treat their children. From the YouTube videos of children who've been set up to sob uncomforted because it's "funny" to your story, I just can't.

It's not okay to humiliate or judge or punish or mock or hurt (physically or emotionally) children. It's not. Ever.
09:06 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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Melinda Nowikowski
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In response to justanotherpam.
Especially since anybody having kids now is young enough to know "the internet is forever." Boomers and older GenX didn't really grok the concept, but people young enough to have kids now have no excuse.
09:13 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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Evolve Undefined
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In response to justanotherpam.
I was physically abused as a kid…. But I can tell you that the humiliation , shame and rejection/emotional abandonment was FAR more damaging.
09:42 AM - Dec 05, 2023
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Florida Redhead
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
No question who wears the pants in that family.
It ain't him.
08:31 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to Florida Redhead.
This response makes me very uneasy.
08:39 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to Florida Redhead.
As I said somewhere else on this thread, patriarchy is a learned, artificial system that harms men almost as much as women. Obviously this includes children as well.
08:42 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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Peggy Stuart #FirstWave
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
And boys. It hurts them, too.
05:49 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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Lisse (she/her)
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
This whole thing just hurts me for little ones who are forced to perpetuate stereotypes of gender roles rather than just being themselves. This type of behavior leads to so many mental health issues down the road. So very sad.
04:52 PM - Dec 04, 2023 (Edited)
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Jeannie (she/her)
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
When my son was 12, he needed a new binder and picked out a pink one. He was doing homework at my dad's house one day when we were there. My dad literally could not understand why a boy would want something pink. Toxic masculinity is so ingrained. It's awful.
04:29 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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J Louise
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In response to Jeannie (she/her).
I’m wondering how we got her when in the 80s pink was a common color for men’s dress shirts.
04:36 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to Jeannie (she/her).
My heart goes out to you. It's frustrating how society enforces rigid gender norms. Your experience echoes the struggles many face when challenging these stereotypes. Let's keep pushing for a world that embraces individual expression and dismantles toxic masculinity.
04:55 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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Josef Konrad
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
Kiddo wanted a Yoshi tee. It didn't matter to him that it was pink, but it did to a stranger who "advised" that his long hair and the shirt might have him mistaken for a girl.

I turned to the stranger and began singing this (loudly) in my worst Steven Tyler voice.

The fucker fled in haste.
Aerosmith - Pink - YouTube

"Pink" by Aerosmith Listen to Aerosmith: https://Aerosmith.lnk.to/listenYD Watch more Aerosmith videos: https://Aerosmith.lnk.to/listenYD/youtube Subscribe ...

03:50 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to Josef Konrad.
Well done.
03:55 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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Lisse (she/her)
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In response to Josef Konrad.
Very Cool 😎, Josef!
04:43 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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Carla Reid + Chilla
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
I get this all the time. It may seem like a small thing, but we sell these little sheepskin booties for babies. Some have beads. pretty beads. The grandma or mom will ask for some. What beads do you want, I ask. Something for a boy or girl they say. I say right back. I don't know what that means.
03:47 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to Carla Reid + Chilla.
It's so insidious that many people don't realize they're doing it & this is why speaking up is so vitally important. Well done. ♥️
03:53 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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My Flying Car 2020
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
I'll bet she doesn't want her son reading books where kids accept classmates with different pronouns, either.

Some women are patriarchy's staunchest defenders.
03:38 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to My Flying Car 2020.
Misogyny thrives on women upholding the patriarchy, obedient to their prescribed roles. Those who conform face limited scrutiny, while defiance is met with swift and escalating punishment. It's the enforcement of a narrow existence. #Misogyny #BreakTheMold
04:01 PM - Dec 04, 2023 (Edited)
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Annie Bee Good
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
I have a son who loves literature & poetry and a daughter who loves math. When they were still in public elem school, every. damn. day. they were told messaging by teachers & peers that boys don't love to read & write poetry and girls aren't good at math. And every. damn. day I deprogrammed them.
03:36 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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Abstracts by Nancy/fbook
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In response to Annie Bee Good.
Good job, mom ! 👏✊👍
03:38 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to Annie Bee Good.
You are badass Annie. ♥️
03:41 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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Bren
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
And little boys who want to be beautiful and embrace beauty for what it is
03:09 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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Haruka (CLOSED)
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
I’ll bet she used the word ‘grooming,’ too. 🙄
03:07 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to Haruka (CLOSED).
Anything that reeks of being female is to be hated so yeah, probably.
03:17 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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Adele Not the singer
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In response to AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn.
It’s tragic
02:57 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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AprilG Xn+2 = Xn+1 + Xn
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In response to BattleFuzz.
Patriarchy is a learned, artificial system that harms men almost as much as women. Fight back, stand up, say something, do not let it stand.
03:21 PM - Dec 04, 2023
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