Jhada Addams (They/Them) ️‍⚧️
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Apparently, now 'Alpha men' aren't supposed to make noises - AT ALL - during sex, or they're accused of being 'too feminine'.

Why the fuck would I want to engage in physical intimacy with a man who provides as much verbal and bodily feedback as a corpse? No thank you.
12:45 PM - Mar 22, 2023
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John Colagioia
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In response Jhada Addams (They/Them) ️‍⚧️ to their Spout
On the other hand, maybe we can encourage expanding this behavior outside the bedroom. I wouldn't mind it if everyone who styled themselves an "alpha male" (a term from a study that turned out to be about captive and distressed wolf packs) would shut up, I'd find that acceptable...
03:05 PM - Mar 22, 2023
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Jhada Addams (They/Them) ️‍⚧️
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In response Jhada Addams (They/Them) ️‍⚧️ to their Spout
The little groans, moans and growls are what really do it for me - knowing that they're enjoying themselves and aren't afraid to show it. Vulnerability is HOT.

Men who refuse to communicate clearly and provide enthusiastic feedback really aren't worth the effort.
12:45 PM - Mar 22, 2023
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