Hector West
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Fellas sending unsolicited DMs: This is your vibe (the GIF below, not the OP).

This is not a good vibe. Step up to the challenge and leave DMs alone till asked.

(GIF: Jack from The Shining knocking on a door, displaying very creepy eyes)
Woke/Saying NO to polls @Woke
Here re a few things to know about me, since I received my third dm from a man.
I'm black
Sixty-four years old
Married 33 1/2 years to the best man on earth
College grad
Two daughters
Three dogs
Cancer patient
Volunteer
Children's advocate
06:23 PM - Jul 20, 2023
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TarakaD
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In response to Hector West.
Unsolicited DMs are not fun or funny, but the GIF below made me chuckle.
02:20 PM - Jul 24, 2023
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Hector West
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In response to TarakaD.
Sometimes humor is just needed to get the point across! Cheers! 🍻
03:56 PM - Jul 24, 2023
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Steve Hill
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In response to Hector West.
IDK! I think as long as its seems important enough for a first contact and they are not trying to become your new best friend it wouldn't bother me but I respect your being creeped out!
12:43 AM - Jul 21, 2023
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Hector West
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In response to Steve Hill.
Doesn't bother me much, either, but that's not the point of the spout. I'm trying to amplify the voices of the people I interact with who have expressed their discomfort with direct DMs. If it's important to both people, a public reach-out (quote-spout, mention, reply) serves the same purpose. 🍻
12:47 AM - Jul 21, 2023
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