Mary OContrary
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BOOKMARK: Healthy strategy to handle trolls

*Breathe. Also known as “The Pause”

*Do not comment, echo, engage. Let them scream into space and be met with silence. Silence is powerful & may encourage healthy, overdue introspection. Let them be their own worst judge

*Report TOS violatio
03:33 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Meg Smythe
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In response to Mary OContrary.
Ty for the reminder. It’s a mixed testament to Spoutible that the trolls and rude ones have begun to pile on.
06:36 PM - Oct 14, 2023
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AlwaysThinkHow
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In response to Mary OContrary.
I sometimes reply with "you sound silly" and then block. It frustrates the heck out of them when they do a rant back and can't send it. Best why I've found to frustrate them.
02:11 PM - Feb 21, 2023
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Mary OContrary
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In response to AlwaysThinkHow.
LOL Its really fun to toy with them.
02:16 PM - Feb 21, 2023
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Sitara 68
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In response to Mary OContrary.
Excellent advice
11:42 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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VivaItalia
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In response to Mary OContrary.
Block N' Walk
11:30 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Mlb Anx
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In response to Mary OContrary.
A tip for the ages. Or like a friend once told me “never argue with an idiot, because someone passing by will not be able to tell who the idiot is.”
11:28 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Mary OContrary
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In response to Mlb Anx.
Still very true!
11:30 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Airyca White
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In response to Mary OContrary.
I have to bookmark this! 🧘🏾‍♀️
09:09 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Pam T.
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In response to Mary OContrary.
Good advice! Gonna try that.
09:04 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Maxine Briggs
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In response to Mary OContrary.
Attention seekers hate silence
07:48 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Mary OContrary
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In response to Maxine Briggs.
Exactly. Silence is far more powerful.
07:51 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Dr EPB
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In response to Mary OContrary.
Do not engage… it’s so hard, but they don’t care about facts, or even right or wrong- their intent is that angry engagement and I REFUSE to give them that any more.
05:07 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Mary OContrary
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In response to Dr EPB.
It can be very hard, trust me I know. But they win every single time we give in to rage, and it isn't worth our blood pressure or helping Muskrat's engagement numbers.
07:01 PM - Feb 19, 2023 (Edited)
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Emskware
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In response to Mary OContrary.
And use your block button liberally.
05:01 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Mary OContrary
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In response to Emskware.
Indeed
07:43 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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hal
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In response to Mary OContrary.
This is why I'd enjoy a mute option for threads and accounts. Until then, I'm satisfied with blocking.
04:30 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Mary OContrary
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In response to hal.
Yes, hopefully we'll have that ability soon!
04:32 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Andrea Kane
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In response to Mary OContrary.
You’re so right. Do you know how many times I have tweeted something back to MTG in my rage? And you know what? She’s thrilled to pieces when people do that because it means that they are reading what she says. From now on, I am completely done. They don’t even exist in my world.
03:48 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Emskware
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In response to Andrea Kane.
I'm so glad you came to that realization. I've been screaming that at people on Twitter for ages now and they just don't get it.
05:02 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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Mojo Democracy Lover
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In response to Andrea Kane.
You're right of course....
I just gave into my rage and was tweeting replies to Rubio. I have been replying less and need to stop doing it all together and spend more time here.
My head does not want to explode here.
09:08 PM - Feb 19, 2023
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