Lisa K. "Guardian of Radical Visions"
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GRRRR! I leave my messages open for legitimate questions and possible creative collaborations. But THIS IS NOT A DATING APP! If you want to connect with people, do it through the timeline.

Why can't men figure this out?! It's RUDE and CREEPY!
09:55 AM - Aug 20, 2023
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Trauma Epidemic
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An appropriate, informative response on your part.

Why they can't figure it out--and do what they do--likely reflects the current state of their lives as well as a lack of learning about personal/societal boundaries. Such is rooted in trauma.

#TraumaEpidemic
#CPTSD
#UnderstandingIsNotCondoning
10:50 AM - Aug 20, 2023
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In response to Trauma Epidemic.
I stand--in part--corrected. Some this, some the other, some … who knows what?

#PerverseOutcomesOfPerverseIncentives
#TraumaEpidemic
12:31 PM - Aug 20, 2023
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Lisa K. "Guardian of Radical Visions"
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In response to Trauma Epidemic.
Thank you for that. I hear that and do understand, that's why I don't block them.

However, there can also be trauma on both sides. I try to be empathetic, and I would rather people learn from their mistakes. Still, sometimes buttons get pushed.
10:52 AM - Aug 20, 2023
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In response to Lisa K. "Guardian of Radical Visions".
Yes. The expression of anger (the 'Stop!' signal to others) in the uppercase and exclamation points is appropriate. The feelings behind that are valid. Your reply/choice is generous and compassionate. Some aren't as able to be so, and that's appropriate too. We all do the best we can.
#LiveAndLearn
10:56 AM - Aug 20, 2023
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