Jhada Addams (They/Them) ️‍⚧️
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The last full on relationship I had was back in 2010. I broke up with a partner that was not healthy for me and decided that I was done dating.
This past March - 13 years later, I finally met the partner I’d been waiting my entire life for, and he’s demisexual as well.
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Funny thing about finding the love you’ve always needed - it helps you realize how unhealthy or downright dangerous/abusive past relationships/connections were. I always felt that I had to struggle to ‘make it work’ or make all these concessions
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to get the person to want to remain in a relationship with me - and, shocker, that never worked.
Now, everything is easy and smooth - we just really enjoy being around each other, no matter what we’re doing. If a point of discomfort comes up, we talk through it - openly and honestly.
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It’s the healthiest, and in some ways the scariest, relationship I’ve ever engaged in.
We compliment each other so well, it’s a little overwhelming at times.
There are Good People out there.
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May all of you encounter them and experience the kind of support, love and joy you most need within a relationship.
May we all heal.
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