Lisa K. "Guardian of Radical Visions"
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I hate to say this, but I'm really hesitant about following men back right now. I just followed someone back whose profile looked pleasant and interesting. And a moment later he was in my DMs.

I've met so many interesting people of all genders on here. Men, please stop.
10:38 AM - Sep 10, 2023
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Lisa K. "Guardian of Radical Visions"
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To all the people saying "shut down your DMS" I have been resisting that for several reasons:

1. I have been helped and helped others through DMS
2. I am trying to build a new career, which often means networking.
3. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt.

I now only allow those I follow.
10:48 AM - Sep 10, 2023
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Lisa K. "Guardian of Radical Visions"
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True story. A few weeks ago, when a bully was trying to push my buttons, a man sent me a well-wriiten pm and recommended a book that was relevant to the topic. He was polite and explained why the PM.

I am niw reading the book and followed him. That's how it's done.
11:24 AM - Sep 10, 2023
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Jennifer Coke
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I hate this, too, and shut down DM access after a few men attempted to privately engage. I mean, I’m on here for cat pictures and social and political commentary/engagement. Definitely not looking for male attention. I can’t quite grasp those thought processes. 🤷🏼‍♀️
10:55 AM - Sep 10, 2023 (Edited)
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