Ola
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Rapists cause rape. 👌
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You can do everything “right” and be assaulted. There’s NO behavior, NO clothes, NO location and NO level of inebriation that causes rape. RAPISTS CAUSE RAPE. Full stop. This victim blaming crap only makes excuses for rapists. Just no.
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Dee Incognito
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My son once told me that when people tell women how to dress to avoid rape, what they’re saying is make sure YOU aren’t the one the rapist attacks tonight.

Our society is about regulating women, not stopping rapists.
In response to Ola.
01:24 AM - Jan 27, 2024
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Taverino
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In response to Dee Incognito.
Years ago I was going over the dress code in my HS classroom and a girl blurted out “all of these rules are directed at the girls! “ she was not wrong!
07:49 AM - Jan 27, 2024
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Dee Incognito
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In response to Taverino.
She is so right! It's infuriating. And I wonder if a lot of the dress codes do more harm than good. Isn't school, after all, the best place for kids to learn that they have to function regardless of sexual urges, and that they are ultimately responsible for those urges?
10:40 AM - Jan 27, 2024
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Space Violet
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In response to Dee Incognito.
It sounds like you raised him well!
07:43 AM - Jan 27, 2024
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Dee Incognito
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In response to Space Violet.
Thank you! It kind of surprised me when he said it, because I never thought of it that way. And then I realized my kid had reached a point where he now had things to teach me, which is pretty amazing. And very cool.
10:30 AM - Jan 27, 2024
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Hoi Pollois
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In response to Dee Incognito.
Republicans on Rape
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Lauraine Knight
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In response to Dee Incognito.
Really because what it actually means is “ it’s your fault if you get raped “
01:41 AM - Jan 27, 2024
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Dee Incognito
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In response to Lauraine Knight.
It’s blaming the victim for something that was going to happen to some woman that night anyway.
02:11 AM - Jan 27, 2024
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StDunstan
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In response to Dee Incognito.
It's about making excuses for violent behavior.
01:29 AM - Jan 27, 2024
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Dee Incognito
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In response to StDunstan.
I would rather think it is about excuses. But for some it’s worse. It’s deciding which woman is raped. The guy’s going to do it anyway, they aren’t stopping him, make sure it’s not you.
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