Lynn Massie 💙
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i'm starting to see the reason people are using the "only follows can see this post" setting.

i keep getting these DMs that start out friendly, I say hello back, and then it's a shitshow. i don't get it.

why ask about me, my family, my work, when we don't even follow each other? feels dirty.
07:25 PM - Feb 05, 2024
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Lo
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Set my DMs to only people I follow a while ago when I kept getting the male creeps. Changing my profile pic also helped, but not enough & I shouldn't need to do that anyway, so updated my message settings & no longer have the creepy problem. I also set follows to be approved / vetted by me 1st.
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07:43 PM - Feb 05, 2024
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Lynn Massie 💙
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we didn't even follow each other.
my profile pic is generic just for this reason.
i guess i will have to update my settings for dms. i really just saw myself being open and available to people who needed help. it's just sad really.
07:47 PM - Feb 05, 2024
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Myra Faye Turner
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Yeah, you should change your settings to only accept DMs from people you follow.

Unfortunately, it won't stop ALL creeps. I have still gotten a few creepy DMs, which I immediately blocked.
07:56 PM - Feb 05, 2024
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