My Flying Car 2020
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If you call me cisgender I don't care. It's not a slur.

But. Since it never comes up otherwise, if you have it's probably cause something's come up - maybe I've said or done something that reveals an ignorance of mine. If that happens, it's my turn to learn something.

It's not rocket science.
04:52 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Saint Clinton
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In response to My Flying Car 2020.
I think that I would prefer that people call me by my name.
05:18 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Fern Lovebond (they/them)
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And what if it's a means to distinguish your gender identity in a relevant situation? E.g. if a heterosexual person offers an opinion about a lesbian relationship affected by anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, then calling them hetero doesn't negate their name or identity, it makes a valid clarification.
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05:29 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Saint Clinton
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In response to Fern Lovebond (they/them).
No, it means that I would prefer that you call me by my name, just like I said. Is that hard to understand?
05:37 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Fern Lovebond (they/them)
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In response to Saint Clinton.
I understand you fine, but I guess I'm not being clear.

There are occasions when we need to mention someone's attributes, when they're relevant to the matter at hand. It might be perfectly valid and respectful to mention such things in certain contexts. Would noting your occupation also offend you?
05:42 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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