Misha Ellison
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And when they respond, telling you their particular reason they’ve come up with for why their toxic position is ok, you can observe the observable. Out loud.

You can observe out loud, to their faces, this observable fact.

For those intent on aligning with cruelty,
#AnyReasonWillDo .
Misha Ellison @MishaInTheCloud
We may not be able to change the hearts and minds of our family, friends, colleagues who hold toxic positions.

Maybe we can.

But even if we can’t, we can at the very least remove that which all who hold toxic positions need.

Blamelessness.

Observe the alignment to cruelty, out loud.
09:26 AM - Mar 13, 2023
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Salma Typhii
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In response to Misha Ellison.
I'm eternally grateful than only one uncle's wife is awful. Sucks that I never see him anymore either, but I have to assume he agrees with her because they are still married
09:38 AM - Mar 13, 2023
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Misha Ellison
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In response to Salma Typhii.
Hi Salma. You’d be surprised. A lot of married people lament in silence.

You might reconnect kindly with him, and if in time an opportunity presents itself, see how he actually feels about her toxic position. He might just be happy to have a trusted loved one to confide in.
09:42 AM - Mar 13, 2023
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