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#DidYouKnow that from very roughly the 1930s through mid-late 1970s, Jewish girls from brooklyn, the bronx, westchester, connecticut (not nj or long island) travelled to harlem beauty shops to get their hair straightened? it was a rite of passage for many jewish girls. if the family was financially
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Barbara Edelman
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comfortable enough, a nose job followed, usually around xmas break in their high school senior years. i have/had "bad hair." yes, we also used that term amongst ourselves. no white hair dresser knew how to simultanously shape & thin curls. i don't know if the method even existed then. i think vidal
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sassoon invented (jewish; maybe his mom & sisters nagged him about it). so i walked around with what i referred to as a badger on my head. i learned that making jokes could defuse the girl bullies. anyway...i nagged & whined & cried until at last my father said, "for chrissake! take her to harlem
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already!" i had informed key mean girls that i was going to get my hair straightened. then my mother asked one of her black pta/cub scout den mother acquaintances if they could make any suggestions about salons. she asked mrs. bernard one spring afternoon after my brother's cub scout pack meeting
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at our house. i was hovering around the leftover snacks, and heard mrs. bernard loud & clear: "alice, don't ever take barbara to a black salon! they'll burn her scalp with chemicals and burn her beautiful hair with electric combs!" FFUUUCCKKKK. i could barely say "goodbye mrs. bernard," when she
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left with her cub scout son, jackie. there was no trip to a harlem black owned beauty salon. there was no straight hair. and reader, there was no nose job until i was 18, when i no longer wanted one.
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Jan| יעל Loose Joints
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In response to Barbara Edelman.
Oh Barb, I grew up in CA & NYC. My Jewish grandmother always praised my “good” button nose. And she passed sometimes up on the LES during the Depression. In HS Afro-Latina friends on the dance team taught me how to properly do my hair in two or four buns so it would stay in place. Y, J,J,K ❤️❤️❤️
03:11 PM - Apr 01, 2024
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Barbara Edelman
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In response to Jan| יעל Loose Joints.
you're probably younger than me. the black girls i went to school with in late 60s-early 70s tended to have 2, 3 or 4 fat pigtails, sometimes twisted, sometimes braided, held in place at top & bottom by those hair ties that looked like figure 8s with brightly-colored marble sized balls on them.
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