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How to Hand Play Like a Pro | PART 2

Fingering and Vulva-Pleasing (continued)

Once you’re touching them directly (no underwear), try…
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🔸 Exploring the area around the vaginal opening. You can brush your fingers along their labia, gently rub their clitoris, all while listening for the telltale sounds of pleasure: heavy breathing, moaning, etc. Pro tip: use the toy here too.
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🔸 Applying lube (even if they’re already wet).
We’ve been conditioned to think that lube is for penetrative sex only, but since the clitoris is not self-lubricating, the right lube will enhance their pleasure.
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🔸 Inserting a finger, and applying pressure.
Move your finger in a slight up and down motion here. It’s not digging for change – not a curling of the fingers – but a motion more similar to a penis or dildo during penetrative sex.
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🔸 Finding the G-spot.
When your fingers are inside, make a “come here” motion, pointing your fingers towards your partner’s belly (almost like you’re trying to stroke their belly button from the inside.)
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You’ll know you found it because it will feel like a bean-shaped bump and may be more textured than the surrounding tissue. If you don’t find it right away, don’t stress – everyone’s body is different. The most important thing is you’re both enjoying yourselves!
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🔸 Experimenting with different pressure and angles. Go slower than you think…even though you’re “in,” you can still mimic the energy of teasing.
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🔸 Trying kinky add-ons.
You can finger while going down on them with your mouth, which feels truly incredible. You can “tease” them by asking if they want more fingers.
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OR if they’re into it, you can do this sex act and nothing else – not even kissing – and watch their reaction while they receive pleasure. Very voyeur/exhibitionist vibes.
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And of course, you can go in that order or mix up any of those techniques depending on the mood. 
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