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How to Hand Play Like a Pro | PART 3
Valid reasons a partner may NOT want hand play

While I hope you’re excited for hand play, there are situations where a partner doesn’t want it, and it’s totally OK for them to decline. Here are a few common reasons:
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🔸 If they’ve got a vulva, getting fingered might feel clinical, like they’re at the OB-GYN’s office. Conversely, they may shy away if your hands aren’t washed and your nails aren’t trimmed. (If that’s the case, you know what to do!)
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🔸 They may have also had a bad experience with hand play in the past, where someone was too abrupt and shoved their fingers in too soon.

🔸 They may also not love the feeling of dry fingers and the porn style finger bang. (Reach for lube.)
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Most of these situations can be addressed with communication and compassion. So if it’s a new partner especially, a quick check-in like “how’s this?” goes a long way, before your hands are in their underwear.
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