King Lavender-licous
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Courting women, the prey/ predator dynamic, I never got behind.

All my relationships developed because women expressed interest in me verbally or with obvious physical cues.

I've never approached anyone who wasn't expecting me.
Honey and pepper and roses en déshabillé @DianeLMajor
We also have a deep culture, and this I believe is worldwide, but it's uniquely troublesome in American pop culture, with centuries-long traditions of horrifying relationship modeling. Stalking is "love" - persistence is heroic - dominance is sexy - and on and on.
09:29 AM - May 10, 2024
09:46 AM - May 10, 2024 (Edited)
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Honey and pepper and roses en déshabillé
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In response to King Lavender-licous.
And that? Is veeeery manly.

Full disclosure, the three great loves of my life, I made the first move every time. Now, I'd LOVE it if one of them had. But these were all MEN. "Move" didn't mean "conk her on the head and drag her by the hair" with any of them. Ever.
12:26 PM - May 10, 2024
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