Kimberlee (Kimbrûlée)
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I am thrilled that so many people have joined/rejoined Spoutible over the last couple of days. I hope you are finding it to be fun, engaging, and informative. PSA: Spoutible is NOT a dating app! Please do not DM women or anyone if you haven't been invited to do so. Thank you. That's the spout.
05:55 PM - Aug 02, 2023
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Bad Hombre Resistor
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In response to Kimberlee (Kimbrûlée).
I'm spoken for and don't DM anyone. That said, is it the worst thing that there are some people looking for relationships based on like minded thinking and empathy instead of just thirst trap pictures?
01:25 AM - Aug 03, 2023
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Kimberlee (Kimbrûlée)
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Of course not. But if there has never been any public exchange whatsoever, sending someone a DM out of the blue with zero context (just a Hi) is seen by many women as creepy and disingenuous. Perhaps as a man, this is something you have not had to deal with.
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08:05 AM - Aug 03, 2023
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Bad Hombre Resistor
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In response to Kimberlee (Kimbrûlée).
I don't get as many DMs as you all do, that's for sure. When I was on the other app it was mostly fake accounts trying to sell me porn. I think that people should simply put their dating status in their profile and everyone should respect whatever that is.
09:14 AM - Aug 03, 2023
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Kimberlee (Kimbrûlée)
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In response to Bad Hombre Resistor.
I don't agree. We should not be required to list our dating status on an app that is not intended for dating. You are certainly entitled to have your opinion. For most women on this site the behavior is unwelcome and just plain creepy.
09:20 AM - Aug 03, 2023
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Sharon Alger ☿️
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In response to Bad Hombre Resistor.
Telling men you’re in a relationship is not the deterrent you think it is
12:59 PM - Aug 03, 2023
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