Vuyelwa Ncube
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It's a thought. Some arguments escalate and others join in and it's a melee without resolution or attempt at being civil.
We must learn to debate and not attack. Mute and block those we disagree with irrevocably. Because it's possible to disagree and scroll on.
70% of the time for me. just leave it
Christopher Bouzy @cbouzy
We should implement a timeout algorithm. When users start arguing with each other, they are put in timeout for x minutes. The number of minutes increase if they continue to argue after coming out of timeout.
06:05 PM - Nov 01, 2023
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Mathias Matos-Kruck
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In response to Vuyelwa Ncube.
Who decided what arguing is? Most of the time I think my wife and her mother are arguing, they are “just talking!”
01:55 PM - Nov 05, 2023
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Vuyelwa Ncube
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In response to Mathias Matos-Kruck.
The people arguing know they are arguing. The vitriol that is spewed makes it obvious that it's an argument not banter.
02:27 PM - Nov 05, 2023
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jenn ○f many things
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In response to Vuyelwa Ncube.
This reminds me of how my grandma used to put my mom and her siblings in a bedroom when they were fighting. According to my mom, grandma would tell them to "stay in there and fight it out", but usually, they'd just sit in there and cry. Then they'd be more well-behaved when they were allowed out.
01:39 PM - Nov 05, 2023 (Edited)
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Vuyelwa Ncube
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In response to jenn ○f many things.
Love this
09:38 AM - Nov 06, 2023
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Steven Aufrecht
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In response to Vuyelwa Ncube.
Maybe some prompts to get people to listen better, to ask for things like: ‘what do you mean by X?” Could you explain how you know that? ‘Can you give some links that give supporting data?’
10:49 AM - Nov 05, 2023
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Vuyelwa Ncube
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In response to Steven Aufrecht.
Well that's a conversation.
11:43 AM - Nov 05, 2023
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blueOcean
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In response to Vuyelwa Ncube.
Haven't really encountered any arguments yet. I don't think they are here yet.
08:08 AM - Nov 05, 2023
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Vuyelwa Ncube
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In response to blueOcean.
They do happen
09:46 AM - Nov 05, 2023
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jenn ○f many things
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In response to blueOcean.
I've had one or two spouters come at me. I tried to be kind, or just said, "M'kay. Thanks for sharing!" I always "drop the rope" first on this platform. Not worth it and I don't want it to be trashy, like other sights. I have muted a couple folks here, but generally see no troublemakers here.
01:47 PM - Nov 05, 2023 (Edited)
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Katie E
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06:11 AM - Nov 05, 2023
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Tim B
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In response to Vuyelwa Ncube.
How do you distinguish between conversation/banter and argument?
05:53 AM - Nov 05, 2023
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Vuyelwa Ncube
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In response to Tim B.
Reaction of the person to whom it's directed
05:54 AM - Nov 05, 2023
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