hmmwrites (Heather's version)
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You may be a woman if:
You've said something in a meeting and been ignored, only to hear the same suggestion come from a (male) coworker a short time later, to much acclaim.
Claudia Citro @Social_Introvert
You may be a woman if:
You’ve been told to smile so you’d be prettier.
You’ve been mansplained about your own body.

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Linda Eisenstein
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In response to hmmwrites (Heather's version).
100X this.
02:35 PM - Jan 11, 2024
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Lisa Moorman
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In response to hmmwrites (Heather's version).
Oh my goodness yes! It took a decade before one of my male colleagues noticed and prefaced his comment “As Lisa said 10 minutes ago…”. I was floored! (I think his daughter and her college experiences helped)
02:25 PM - Jan 11, 2024
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hmmwrites (Heather's version)
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In response to Lisa Moorman.
He's a good one. I appreciate when men call this shit out, so we don't always have to. Because if we do, we're emotional, shrill, bitchy....... 🙄
02:44 PM - Jan 11, 2024
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shadeygreyskies
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In response to Lisa Moorman.
Wish more men understood and stepped up to actually do that.

Very simple, takes less than 5 seconds, and is greatly appreciated.

Giving credit where it's due takes nothing away from you.

(This ends my 30 second Ted Talk.)
03:05 PM - Jan 11, 2024 (Edited)
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Angela
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In response to hmmwrites (Heather's version).
My boss does this except he'll explain it in a really convoluted way. I always look at him and say "You mean like what I just said!"
02:02 PM - Jan 11, 2024
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hmmwrites (Heather's version)
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In response to Angela.
My husband does this. It's a focus/processing thing for him, not a sexist thing, and I TRY not to take it personally - I know he's actually processing what I said but not consciously? But sometimes when I've had my fill of mansplaining in a moment, I still want to toss him out a window.
02:08 PM - Jan 11, 2024
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D. Burchardt
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In response to hmmwrites (Heather's version).
Exactly this! 😒
01:33 PM - Jan 11, 2024
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