Frank the Bunny
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I don't know why it seems the interpersonal relationships I forge always seem to be with extremely negative, profoundly unhappy people, and then I just end up feeling like shit from the weight of all the negativity. I'm nothing like that. What is it about me that makes me a magnet for it?
06:18 PM - Mar 14, 2023
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Nikki
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I'm a profoundly unhappy people. Please don't hold it against me, I was born this way. Some people just feel safe.
In response to Frank the Bunny.
06:29 PM - Mar 14, 2023
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Frank the Bunny
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In response to Nikki.
I don't hold it against anyone if they are profoundly unhappy, I'm just not sure how to break the cycle of always giving my time and attention even though it hurts me, without receiving it back, because they can't refocus outside their misery long enough to do that.
06:34 PM - Mar 14, 2023
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Nikki
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In response to Frank the Bunny.
Empathy can be a huge burden. This is my sister. Always shouldering everyone else's problems instead of focusing on her own. I rarely pile my crap on top of that...I pay a therapist.
06:40 PM - Mar 14, 2023
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Nikki
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In response to Frank the Bunny.
Sometimes, cutting toxic people out of your life is necessary for your own well-being. It's okay to be selfish when it comes to your own mental health.
06:44 PM - Mar 14, 2023
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