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randy gold
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In response to Liz N Is Tired of the Nonsense.
Do ALL men, cis-hets and wp do those things? Probably no. So to avoid the response, why not just say truth right off the bat.
eg. Here's a thing that some (or many) (or most) men, cis-hets or wp do that's problematic. then the response can focus on the problematic thing that you are identifying.
06:54 PM - Apr 29, 2024
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Jeff Pilchard
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In response to randy gold.
Oh, look, a straight White guy telling women and minorities how they should act. Never seen that before . . .

/sarcasm
07:00 PM - Apr 29, 2024
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randy gold
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In response to Jeff Pilchard.
i didn't tell anyone to do anything. Her spout indicated that she had a problem with people responding a way she didn't like. I only gave a suggestion. Are straight white guys (who happen to actually sympathize with what women and minorities go through) not allowed to speak on this site anymore?
07:12 PM - Apr 29, 2024
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Nevada Jones
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When someone in a marginalized group says something about cis-het white men, I don't take it personally. I do my work untangling my unconscious bias & seeing my privilege as best I can. I value the reminders about the kind of person I don't want to be. So: Just do the work. Don't take it personally.
In response to randy gold.
09:35 PM - Apr 29, 2024
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randy gold
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In response to Nevada Jones.
I’m finally understanding. Thanks for the tip.
09:46 PM - Apr 29, 2024
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Nevada Jones
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In response to randy gold.
Takes some real mojo to not just shut down conversation when some people, weary of trying to explain, can respond so... assertively. So anyway, thanks for your response and for being willing to investigate honestly.
10:21 PM - Apr 29, 2024
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