Jonathan Berman
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The term black sheep isn't right, and I think possibly racist, so lets fix it. Black is awesome, sheep are followers and we're not, we're intensely ourselves, so, lets update that term. How about... Grey Gull. They steal our color and see us as annoying, like a seagull.
10:19 AM - Apr 27, 2023
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Edmund
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In response to Jonathan Berman.
I was the gray gull of my family, the ugly duckling, black sheep and scapegoat. People need villains and heros to hold on to, because thinking is so darn hard, agreed "black sheep" does sound a bit prejudiced at the very least.
10:24 AM - Apr 27, 2023
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Jonathan Berman
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In response to Edmund.
Thank you, and I feel for ya, I have always been the grey gull of my family as well, and it's hard to see my siblings all effortlessly supporting each other and picking apart anything I say and showing no interest in anything I do.
10:39 AM - Apr 27, 2023
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Edmund
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In response to Jonathan Berman.
Agreed. I happened to get a ride from my sister's co-workers and they went on and on about how supportive, loving and encouraging she was. On multiple trips. I'm like, that's not my experience and I'm her little brother. LOL. It's usually rooted in jelly.
11:13 AM - Apr 27, 2023
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Jonathan Berman
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Also, when it comes to family, there's often a lot of projection.
In response to Edmund.
01:47 PM - Apr 27, 2023
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