Deanna (@LadyDi) of Love Wins Movement
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Carol Norris @CarolNorris
My latest piece, "You Don't Need Any Excuse for Not Screaming," re. the #EJeanCarroll case, validating your reaction to your #sexualassault . Tacopino can go f' himself.

#IStandWithEJeanCarroll #TrumpSexualAssaultCase #Trump #TrumpSexualAssaultCase

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JM Cressy
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It's not just sexual assault. It's any violent threat to personal safety. And the reason why troops need 2-3 months of training to react effectively.
This isn't new information- but the victim blamers somehow expect untrained people to become ninja fighters at the drop of a hat.
05:46 PM - May 02, 2023
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Deanna (@LadyDi) of Love Wins Movement
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05:56 PM - May 02, 2023
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SueBee Honey
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I found your article to be quite informative. It helped me understand a few things about my own experience so I've saved it and shared a couple of times in hopes it will help others. Thank you for posting.
06:59 AM - May 01, 2023
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Deanna (@LadyDi) of Love Wins Movement
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08:50 AM - May 01, 2023
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Fun in Dysfunction 👁♥️🧠s
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Could you provide a link to your paper? I'm a neuroscientist interested in CSA-induced PTSD.
10:22 AM - Apr 28, 2023
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Deanna (@LadyDi) of Love Wins Movement
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09:13 PM - Apr 28, 2023
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Sarah Daniel
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Makes a lot of sense that that would happen. It's a shock, the body feels the threat of death, and it just all freezes. Then afterwards the person is doubly, triply vulnerable to accusations also. It will help if this information is widely known and accepted.
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Deanna (@LadyDi) of Love Wins Movement
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07:01 AM - Apr 28, 2023
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Laura Spouts N Spurts
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A teenager, asleep in my bed. Awoke to an intruder on top of me. I couldn't move; was barely able to whisper to my sister "get this man off me". She hit him in the head with a penny jar. I could'nt take a shower with the curtain closed. I looked in the closet and under the bed before going to sleep.
05:31 AM - Apr 28, 2023
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Sandra Mason
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When your soul is seemingly shattering, you freeze. You hide from reality itself.
01:20 AM - Apr 28, 2023
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Deanna (@LadyDi) of Love Wins Movement
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Matt Egan he/him/his
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As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse by a position of trust and I can confirm this by unfortunate 1st hand experience. I completely blocked the memories for over 20 years. The part about Paralysis correct, it doesn't include blocking the memories as a survival mechanism. I still struggle at 40...
01:02 AM - Apr 28, 2023
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Deanna (@LadyDi) of Love Wins Movement
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01:43 AM - Apr 28, 2023
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Nancy Bird
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I can relate to this.
12:53 AM - Apr 28, 2023
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Deanna (@LadyDi) of Love Wins Movement
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Anton Brakhage
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They're still pushing the narrative that if someone didn't scream or fight, they weren't really assaulted/"they wanted it".

Sick. Do people not understand that being sexually assaulted is traumatizing? Or that freezing is every bit as much a possible response as fighting or screaming is?
12:48 AM - Apr 28, 2023
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Chanelle S
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Thank you so much for sharing this. Even now, decades later, it's so hard to let go of the shame.
12:00 AM - Apr 28, 2023
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Deanna (@LadyDi) of Love Wins Movement
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Know BS
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just posted a spout on this - thanks
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Grandma Sharon
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Thank you for writing this.
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