Lizzie
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For your consideration:
I saw a spout criticizing those of us who did not sign up w/ our actual names

For some of us it's a matter of safety. Our lives, home communities, jobs make it dangerous to expose ourselves on ANY public platform

Please don't assume we are hiding behind a keyboard
05:21 AM - Feb 12, 2023
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Ozark Individual
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In response to Lizzie.
EXACTLY!!
11:34 AM - Jul 28, 2023
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Movie Vigilante
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In response to Lizzie.
I saw movie critic Christie Lemire get death threats once, for having the nerve to say that she didn't like a certain movie.

If I want to say a certain Marvel or DC movie, or Star Wars movie is bad, I want a layer of protection, which is what my username and a paper bag over my head affords me.
05:35 AM - Apr 25, 2023
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Terri Jones
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In response to Lizzie.
Right? My friends know my username. The rest of you are acquaintances, and that ought to be enough.
01:07 PM - Apr 20, 2023
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Donnie DoWrong
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In response to Lizzie.
This spout was removed because the account associated with it was suspended.
01:57 AM - Feb 20, 2023
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Linda in TN ACTIVE Resister
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In response to Lizzie.
Since I live in Tennessee too I know exactly what you’re saying about safety issues in using your name. You do whatever is best for you. On the bird I did not use my name or photo but decided to do it here. To each their own ❤️
10:24 PM - Feb 16, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Linda in TN ACTIVE Resister.
Exactly.
I know what is best for me and my family just as you know what is best for you and yours.
06:57 AM - Feb 17, 2023
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Mary Queen of Scots
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In response to Lizzie.
👍
01:25 PM - Feb 16, 2023
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G
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In response to Lizzie.
I couldn’t agree more!!
06:32 AM - Feb 16, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to G.
😊
06:35 AM - Feb 16, 2023
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Donnie DoWrong
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In response to Lizzie.
This spout was removed because the account associated with it was suspended.
08:38 AM - Feb 15, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Donnie DoWrong.
I agree totally. And still I was frustrated by his dogmatic position on this issue.
I thought perhaps offering a differing position would help those more open minded folks consider a different point of view.
04:57 PM - Feb 15, 2023
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Larry with an i
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In response to Lizzie.
I am of the generation that was taught it is foolish to assume that anyone is safe in voicing their political opinions on the internet.

To me, nothing has changed for the better since then.
12:21 AM - Feb 15, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Larry with an i.
You're right. Absolutely nothing has changed. In fact, it continues to worsen year after year. 😞
05:24 AM - Feb 15, 2023
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Missy M
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In response to Lizzie.
So true.
12:05 AM - Feb 15, 2023
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Jeanine Brazen Hussy
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In response to Lizzie.
That's horrible, Lizzie. You should be able to use whatever name you want.
10:24 PM - Feb 14, 2023 (Edited)
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Lizzie
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In response to Jeanine Brazen Hussy.
Thank you, Jeanine. I think we all should!
10:28 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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ecsbrooklyn
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In response to Lizzie.
I'm not a public person, and my husband is a public-facing federal employee. We protect our privacy.
10:17 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to ecsbrooklyn.
I would think you have to!
10:29 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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dmark
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In response to Lizzie.
I have been dmark on line for 15 years. My friends know who I am.
10:05 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to dmark.
That's what matters most!
10:06 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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JudesLaw
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In response to Lizzie.
💯
07:59 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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BTW ByTheWay
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In response to Lizzie.
Agree! My job has strict political rules. I don't need them critiquing my posts.😎
07:34 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Judy Judy
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In response to Lizzie.
I agree, Lizzie. I am JudyJudy & have been on Twitter since May 2009.
06:40 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Judy Judy.
Hi Judy Judy!
06:45 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Mickaleets
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In response to Lizzie.
Hello “blue dot” in Tennessee!
05:21 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Mickaleets.
Hi!
06:09 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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America Won!
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In response to Lizzie.
I hope people don’t start with all of that mess over here. That’s what we’re trying to get away from. Be civil, people. Stop trying to tell people what they should be doing. To each his or her own…please.
04:41 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to America Won!.
This was first wave and I was shocked to see that kind of mess happening already. So glad I haven't seen much of it since then!
06:11 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Jack Daniels
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In response to Lizzie.
I'm waiting for someone to buy my name .
04:36 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Jack Daniels.
lol
06:12 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Carlita
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In response to Lizzie.
On point!
04:27 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Carlita.
Thank you!
06:13 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Trust Facts
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In response to Lizzie.
If people have to use their real names, honest expression of ideas and opinions will be diminished because we all have lives outside of social media that are affected in one way or the other. Ask me how many hours of meetings I had to attend at work about what would get us fired on social media.
04:08 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Trust Facts.
Excellent point. I temper my responses no matter who I am speaking with.
06:15 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Freecat15
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In response to Lizzie.
But that's not all. I've been Freecat everywhere on the net for 12 years now. I honestly see no reason to change that, all the more since I'm not posting vile things that I wouldn't dare post with my full name.
But I'm not keen of being seen by parents of my elementary class. That's just my privacy
04:03 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Freecat15.
We all deserve to have that kind of privacy if we choose.
06:17 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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suitep
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In response to Lizzie.
Thank you for this! I’ve used this username since I first joined Twitter and Tumblr back in 2007. It’s also been my email since gmail first started. It adds a certain level of safety some of us need, and I’m not about to change it now.
“Wherever you go, there you are”.
04:00 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to suitep.
And why would you change it now? I really do wish I could remember his name so I could tag him in this thread. 😕
06:37 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Pibble Mom
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In response to Lizzie.
The people who need to know who I am, know who I am. Engage with me because of my insights, musings & opinions, not because of my name. If by chance our conversations take us down a more personal avenue, you'll know who I am, too. 😊
03:58 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Pibble Mom.
Nice.
And, same.
Intimacy of any kind is earned.
06:18 PM - Feb 14, 2023 (Edited)
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maqart55
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In response to Lizzie.
As someone who has been already been stalked, harassed and had property vandalized IRL due to my pro abortion activism, I do not use my name on any social media.
I will not apologize for protecting myself and my family.
03:48 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to maqart55.
I'm right there with you.
Neither will I.
06:44 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Codi Nowacki
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In response to Lizzie.
I think this is fair and valid. I can use my name because I don't have to be scared for my life. I am public with my opinions and have the privilege to be able to do that. MANY people don't.
03:36 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Codi Nowacki.
Yes! You do you. I can't understand why this was such a burr under his saddle.
06:39 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Professor McGonagall
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In response to Codi Nowacki.
As an educator, I want to be able to be free with my opinions here. If parents/school district members saw they may take issue with them and I just would like to avoid that. Separation of personal/work lives.
12:20 AM - Feb 15, 2023
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ThePhilo Sopherking?
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In response to Lizzie.
On that other platform, I knew a whole lot of folks who used real names (assuming that those folks were being forthright and honest) but never engaged in convos or anything other than retweet. A lack of original statements or routine engagement is way more wierd and sets off much more flags⚠️🤔
03:35 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to ThePhilo Sopherking?.
Our last name is pretty unique-- I originally used my real name over there until it became dangerous to do so.
10:10 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Emskware
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In response to Lizzie.
Michael McFaul, of all people, tweeted this a couple of weeks ago saying if we didn't use our real names we were bots. I not only unfollowed him but I blocked him. I will do that to anybody else and save them the stress of having to look at my nickname on a Spout.
03:30 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Lizzie
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In response to Emskware.
Excellent plan. I will follow your lead!
10:14 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Knaughty
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In response to Emskware.
He changed his tune a few days ago.
05:58 AM - Feb 15, 2023
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Jacqueline Smay
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In response to Lizzie.
I cannot believe that after lo these many years we are having the same damn discussion about this every time a new social medium comes into being. Every time.
03:25 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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Mean Maria
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In response to Lizzie.
I routinely deal with people that were murdered. I would rather not be able to be found by the people I have evidence against.
03:23 PM - Feb 14, 2023
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