Halo-Halo w/ All the Sighs
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CW: SA/SH/Rape

What Jeanne describe here is common. And it's not just in public instances of SA/SH.

I know I froze when it happened to me. This is exactly why the comment from that now-blocked dolt triggered me. And why using a survivor's lack of fight to excuse the perpetrator is bollocks.
Jeanne Gustafson @JeanneGustafson
Often when someone does something wildly inappropriate, especially in public, you're often too shocked to react immediately. That doesn't make what they did appropriate. Imo
08:50 PM - Aug 26, 2023
05:55 AM - Aug 27, 2023 (Edited)
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Jeanne Gustafson
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Thanks for sharing this. In my experience, abusers often employ a shock and awe tactic, and later excuse it as implied consent.
05:29 PM - Aug 28, 2023
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Linda Eisenstein
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In response to Halo-Halo w/ All the Sighs.
Absolutely freezing is a response to something wildly inappropriate. I will NEVER forget a guy at my workplace passing me in the hallway and murmuring the antisemitic "You'd make a good lampshade." WTAF. I was too stunned even to report it, it temporarily broke my brain.
06:25 AM - Aug 27, 2023
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