Spiritedrinoa
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We've set the date for the burial service. Now trying to get things I need to prepare for it square. So many logistics at such a vulnerable time. When do I get space to just grieve? Thank you to all the spouties who sent love and resources. I've bookmarked many to look at when I have the spoons to.
08:04 PM - Jan 02, 2024
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SLS StickFigure
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
I've lived with grief for over 20 years. The 1st phase for me was the worst, partly because of all the things you just referred to. You can get through it. After there will be that time of reflection. You'll make what you need from it. Do whatever you feel will comfort you and bring you peace. 💔
08:35 PM - Jan 02, 2024
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Spiritedrinoa
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For me right now the hardest part is wanting space to grieve and not having time to do so. At the rec of my Dr and boss I put in for leave and will hopefully get 4-8 weeks in which I can pull my life together, find a new normal for me and son and have time to actually stop and feel.
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09:17 PM - Jan 03, 2024
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
Glad to hear you're being given the time to get things in order. Hopefully some of that time can be used for reflection and healing. The grief may always be with you. That will be up to you. I still hold onto mine, and that's not me recommending that. We all grieve in our own ways.
09:30 PM - Jan 03, 2024
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In response to SLS StickFigure.
I tend to hold onto things (for better or worse) and he has been a part of half my life. I suspect I'll be much the same.
06:49 AM - Jan 04, 2024
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