Isa-Lee Wolf
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Spoutible is likely the first place a lot of white men are allowed to be where they cannot control or dominate a conversation.

It's something they are so used to, not doing it feels like "oppression."

What's sad is instead of using it to grow, many leave/mute/retreat to the safety of patriarchy.
10:53 AM - Jan 12, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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Note how this user responded, with an image of genitalia.

It is a textbook example of how men use sexual violence as one of the tools to control, dominate and end a conversation. I took a screenshot but did not post it bc I wanted to limit his reach.

Please report, he doesn't belong here.
09:06 AM - Jan 13, 2024 (Edited)
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Gerald
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Mind-blowing!
07:24 PM - Jan 23, 2024
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Lipsticktraces
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I actually wish someone had been recording me when I saw that picture. The immediate physical display of disgust and loathing surprised even me. I had a similar response last week when I unsuspectingly walked up to the severed horse head from the Godfather at the Oscar's museum in LA. ALARM BELLS.
08:29 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to Lipsticktraces.
EXACTLY. We have a space here where we can be honest about the impact and how upsetting it really is, bc any other place if we said that, we would have a flood.
08:30 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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⚾️Dane Pereslete⚾️
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
Hmmm...I clicked his profile link, and it turns out I must have blocked him long ago from previously showing his ass.
12:22 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to ⚾️Dane Pereslete⚾️.
Excellent!
12:24 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Pamela B'well
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
Reported.
[#Spoutible Team is about to get an earful!]

How was I following
this cretin???
11:55 AM - Jan 13, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to Pamela B'well.
Thank you!!

That's the thing, you don't know necessarily until they make it clear.
12:39 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Elena
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
🎯
09:25 AM - Jan 13, 2024
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ecsbrooklyn
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
Reported and blocked. I don't think I've ever seen a better example of proving an OP's point.
09:24 AM - Jan 13, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to ecsbrooklyn.
Thank you, and right?
09:31 AM - Jan 13, 2024
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Dıanna
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In response to ecsbrooklyn.
I tried to report, but got an error. I guess he's deleting the post?
Unfollowed & blocked, though.
It's always shocking to me (it shouldn't be, right?) when men resort to this level of 'discourse.'
Crass, inexcusable, and disheartening.
09:39 AM - Jan 13, 2024
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Ground Control
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
Never really have been able to either dominate or control too many conversations before now. Most of the time, I usually got some version of "shut up" with the full blessing of that patriarchy, which doesn't tolerate folks it labels "freaks".

Around here, people listen and I do my best to do same.
09:05 AM - Jan 13, 2024 (Edited)
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to Ground Control.
You'd be surprised if you really looked.

Speaking of, have you reported the spout below where the guy sent genitalia?
09:08 AM - Jan 13, 2024
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Joon Bugg
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What's funny is how some of those snowflakes actually come here thinking they're enlightened & when someone hints maybe they aren't → tires peeling out...
10:24 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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N V
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
Well, I must be different. But I don’t spout as much as I should.
04:11 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to N V.
Why must you be different?
04:11 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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Katie Kadwell
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
It’s so true. ❣️💔
03:54 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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Claudia Citro
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The men of Spoutible are much advanced socially. Even the good men, like my husband, will find themselves corrected once in a while. Within the last year, my husband ‘got’ what mansplaining is. We are lucky to have found the men that actually like women.
03:36 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to Claudia Citro.
I totally agree. I do think it's somewhat self-selecting, we saw that in action yesterday.

But it's how we build a better world.
03:41 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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Donna Jones
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
Amen! This is the safest platform for me. I am a 60 year old woman and good lord, comments from men on platforms is exhausting. I swear if we just muted/blocked all of them, they would be left talking to themselves an other involved men.

So, thank you Men of Spoutible!
03:35 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to Donna Jones.
Yes, overall the men here are so much better, likely bc it's self-selecting.

I interacted with very few men on the other site, they often blocked me or I them. But here it's largely a different story.
03:40 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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Mary Ohlson
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
Their loss.
03:21 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to Mary Ohlson.
Very much so.
03:22 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to ManKillah Fruitface.
YUP, me too, and some of them I've never interacted with.

And the ones I have, I only go for the throat when they've proven they deserve it; many block me before I get there.
01:06 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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⚜️Karyl Towers⚜️
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That’s what Twitter is. maga men. Tough guys!
11:35 AM - Jan 12, 2024
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WestCoaster
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
Yes, and so I am grateful for the good men who do stay, who are willing to listen, learn, and change. It isn't easy for them, and it does give me hope. Of course, change is uncomfortable for those who have always had it their own way, too hard for some of them. Let them run away.
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