Read aBannedBook
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Is it a pile on or do women feel comfortable enough here to speak up?

Are women still expected to be silent and endure? Do I have to count up the spouts before I speak up to avoid pile on?

I've seen men pout for days over the least little pushback while we're supposed to brush it off.

Enough.
03:37 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to Read aBannedBook.
THANK YOU.

It is completely exhausting, all of it.

"Did you speak out?"

"You spoke out too much."

"Other people spoke out and that's your fault."

EXHAUSTING.
12:00 AM - Jan 14, 2024
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Read aBannedBook
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
♥️❤️❤️
12:26 AM - Jan 14, 2024
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Jacquelyn G.
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In response to Read aBannedBook.
They are so accustomed to being applauded (undeservingly) & given a “criticism sandwich” if there is something they need to hear that it blows their circuits when they hear multiple people simply say “you’re wrong, say you’re sorry and take it back.” No cookie, no passing Go, just apologize & stop.
11:18 PM - Jan 13, 2024 (Edited)
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hal
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In response to Read aBannedBook.
I have a personal aversion to repeating what someone else has already said, so I admit my threshold for "pile on" might be lower than it should be. I do understand the necessity of amplifying community responses.
04:32 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Becky Helton
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In response to Read aBannedBook.
When you're used to being able to say shit like that without repercussions, it probably feels like a pile on. Even the mildest criticism.... I asked if he hadn't heard women saying, for years, how sick we are of "shrill".
04:20 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Read aBannedBook
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In response to Becky Helton.
The sad thing is this applies to multiple men here, though they're gone now; they left in a huff. The ones who stay are the ones who learn and apologize, and I greatly appreciate that.
04:22 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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k hola (she/her)
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In response to Anne NotOfCleves.
I was told the squeaky wheel gets the grease and took it literally
04:19 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Deb Kopaska
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In response to Read aBannedBook.
Do a search on: you might be a woman if
03:48 PM - Jan 13, 2024 (Edited)
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Read aBannedBook
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In response to Deb Kopaska.
I spouted one of those ...
03:49 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Woke/Saying NO to polls
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In response to Read aBannedBook.
Just a few days ago, women of Spoutible posted, "you know you're a woman"..
Your spout is spot on.
03:41 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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