Isa-Lee Wolf
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If you have a problem with the way I handled a stranger sending me an unsolicited sexually explicit image in an attempt to shut me up...

Or anyone who found it funny...

At least have the strength of character to address me directly and stop the little whisper whispers.
08:46 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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All of this whisper whisper judgment and the idea that it is "too harsh" or a "pile-on"

Is a direct service to patriarchy. This is why women don't say anything. If we say nothing and nothing happens, our fault.

If we say something and something happens, OUR FAULT.

When are men responsible for
08:53 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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The consequences of their own actions?

So a lot of people share the same opinion about someone making sexual harassment a joke.

It is not a pile on and that person IS NOT A FREAKING VICTIM.

The person who sent the picture is ABSOLUTELY NOT A VICTIM.

Have something to say?

SAY IT TO ME.
08:55 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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shadeygreyskies
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Why should we have to "put up with" it?

Problem is, it's everywhere we go.

It's exhausting - and divisive. It keeps us on the defensive and quibbling over our reactions, not their actions.

Same tactics used by different isms many times over on many groups.

We shouldn't have to deal with it.
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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We seriously shouldn't.

It's so upsetting.

I can't believe the image is still up...I wonder if I should tag Christopher Bouzy about it, it seems like as direct violation and so many people have reported it.
09:11 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Haruka (RELOCATED)
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I didn’t know it was still up; I blocked him after I reported it. Gross. 😡
09:35 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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