Isa-Lee Wolf
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I find the pressure on people to "forgive" their abusers gross.

And it seems it's always about the people abused "getting over it," and never the abusers truly taking steps to attempt to atone without expecting it to be transactional.
08:39 AM - Jan 19, 2024
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Just Curious About Stuff
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
Nope

They knew what they were doing and had no problem inflicting pain and anguish

Fuck this shit that I should feel compassion, understanding, or forgiveness towards my abuser

I’ve forgiven myself, but that’s as far as it’ll ever go
03:45 PM - Jan 19, 2024 (Edited)
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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I totally understand this and agree that's your right.
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03:52 PM - Jan 19, 2024
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Just Curious About Stuff
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In response to Isa-Lee Wolf.
Thank you

I realize starting off with Nope looked like I was disagreeing with you

I was actually trying to say Nope to the idea of forgiving your abuser

My apologies if that wasn’t clear 😃✌🏻🖖🏻
04:57 PM - Jan 19, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to Just Curious About Stuff.
OH I got what you meant!!
05:26 PM - Jan 19, 2024
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