Mc Crispy
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Grief has NO time limit. It has NO calendar.

How long it takes to get to the end of the path is unknown to all of us. And none of us get there at the same time.

Empathy and compassion are the LEAST expected from those around the grieving. If you can't manage that, keep moving.
R. Cloud @Antl3redCryptid
Coworker caught me crying at my desk a little bit. He makes the second person to ask me how long I’m going to be sad about my boyfriend passing away. “You can’t cry over him every day for the rest of your life.” How not to handle grieving people 101. I can and I will if I damn well please.
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Pa Dad
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In response to Mc Crispy.
I have seen people take years to grieve. As you say, it is a process, and each person handles it differently. Empathy is the least one can do for someone who is grieving.
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Linda Eisenstein
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In response to Mc Crispy.
What kind of knuckle-headed dipshit thinks this kind of statement to a grieving person is appropriate or helpful?

Grief takes as long as it takes. Mind your own beeswax.
08:47 PM - Feb 02, 2024
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Mc Crispy
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In response to Linda Eisenstein.
Absolutely.

Someone had the nerve to to tell me my husband was weak and a coward.

He left with a black eye and a bloody nose.
08:49 PM - Feb 02, 2024 (Edited)
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