Scott Johnson
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I honestly had no idea that this word is offensive to some women.
06:49 AM - Mar 12, 2023
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The Mighty OCD
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This is nuts. I say ma'am to all women. Whether they are 5 or 95. That's the way my mamma taught me and if you're offended, tough shit. I'm gonna hold the door for you too. Don't call the cops.
In response to Scott Johnson.
08:44 AM - Mar 12, 2023
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TheForty(3)YearOldXennial (he/him)
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In response to The Mighty OCD.
It's all in tone. At least you mean well.

Cool avatar, btw. Jason Lives is my favorite.
11:32 AM - Mar 12, 2023
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Andrea Loken
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In response to The Mighty OCD.
Have you considered that for some, this feels like you’d rather erase them than acknowledge who they really are? If someone asks me not to call them miss or ma’am, I’m fine with it because it’s important to actually respect how people wish to be treated. It’s the Golden Rule, worth living by.
09:30 AM - Mar 12, 2023
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Bren
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In response to Andrea Loken.
I agree if someone asks me not to call them ma'am I wouldnt but to be instantly offended by it in an every stranger to stranger encounter is the person's issue about aging.
09:43 AM - Mar 12, 2023
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The Mighty OCD
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In response to Andrea Loken.
I was referring to strangers, people on the phone, at the bank. Of course if someone asks me not to call them something, I won't anymore than I would deadname someone.
10:32 AM - Mar 12, 2023
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