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Merlene Taylor
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In response to ManKillah Fruitface.
Why can't I see a human being, and not giving a damn about your sexual preference?
10:29 AM - Mar 06, 2024
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Miggs Bylaws
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In response to Merlene Taylor.
Trans & cis are references to gender, not sexuality. Those two concepts are not the same. There are some helpful guides that might give you a better understanding of these concepts. And there are MANY studies and personal testimonies explaining why self-acknowledgment matters for well-being.
12:01 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Merlene Taylor
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In response to Miggs Bylaws.
Respecting the conversations and concepts, I will NOT be labeled as a "cis" woman. That is disrespectful to me as a woman.
12:21 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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RA
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In response to Merlene Taylor.
If your assigned gender matches your actual gender, then you ARE a cis woman. It is not an insult; it is a fact.
12:26 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Merlene Taylor
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In response to RA.
It IS an insult to me. You don't get to tell me what is an insult to ME nor do you get to label/define me. Only I can do that.
12:29 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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RA
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In response to Merlene Taylor.
You don't get to spout trans exclusionary nonsense and then play the victim here. Cis is not an insult. Full stop.
12:31 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Merlene Taylor
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In response to RA.
I said nothing exclusionary. Not am I playing a victim nor am I victimizing. I SAID I am a woman. PERIOD.
12:35 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Nevada Jones
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In response to Merlene Taylor.
I wonder if you're just angry about the fact that there are more kinds of people in the world than you want to believe there are, and you resent that. You thought you were the "normal standard," and now you find out you're just one of many sorts. Does this make you feel threatened somehow?
02:13 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Merlene Taylor
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In response to Nevada Jones.
Not angry. Have no idea where you got that. People can define themselves as they see fit. I'm cool with that. I can also define me, and I don't care if you or anyone else have a problem with it.
02:17 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Nevada Jones
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In response to Merlene Taylor.
I have no trouble with your self-definition. I'm only guessing at why you have such reactive distaste for more specific gender distinctions in a world where gender is more of a spectrum than most of us cisgender (that's just the way to distinguish "non-transgender," to be clear) people once thought.
03:42 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Merlene Taylor
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I do not require the distinction. My distaste is others thinking they have the power and authority to define ME.
In response to Nevada Jones.
03:51 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Pamela
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In response to Merlene Taylor.
Sure, call yourself whatever you what. Call yourself a giraffe if you want to. What people here are talking about are facts.
But it’s clear you’re not interested in facts, or science. You’d rather be “right.” It’s sad and you don’t even realize it. Which is more sad.
07:20 AM - Mar 07, 2024
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Carmen Derbedrossian
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In response to Merlene Taylor.
I respect your choice and I’m glad you felt safe enough in voicing your opinion to Myles. That is what 🐳 we are about.
08:50 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Nevada Jones
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In response to Merlene Taylor.
...I see what you're saying -- I chafe at some (plenty of) adjectives others might apply to me. But on this one, it's no contest. I'm white and that comes with certain social privilege, I'm a cis-het male, which piles on even more privilege. If I pretended not to see that, I'd be willfully bigoted.
04:24 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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Nevada Jones
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In response to Merlene Taylor.
Saying I'm a man, & more specifically a cisgender man, is no different to me than saying I have hair, & more specifically brown hair. Doesn't mean much to me. But these distinctions mean a lot to non-binary people, & respecting & honoring that is frankly just part of trying to be a decent person.
04:21 PM - Mar 06, 2024
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