Bowerydoll
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Just got hit with another microaggression and it's reminding me of the bird app too much today. Please, to ALL the white users here, THINK BEFORE YOU SPOUT REPLIES TO PEOPLE OF COLOR. Don't teach us. And don't try to tell us how we should state perspectives coming out of our own experiences. Enough.
04:27 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Mimi22
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In response to Bowerydoll.
Sorry to hear that. I haven't seen it here. I hope your words shut it down.
07:52 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Bowerydoll
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In response to Mimi22.
Thank you. I hope so, too. I can't describe how exhausting and weathering it is. Like so many other folks of color, I went through racist hell on the bird app. I've been hopeful being here, but ive been getting hit by some white spouters dumping their microaggressions. I almost quit this morning.
07:57 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Thee NW Mankiller Magpie
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In response to Bowerydoll.
I'm so sorry this happened to you here.
07:38 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Bowerydoll
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In response to Thee NW Mankiller Magpie.
Thank you, Magpie. This morning was really frustrating. I hope for better days. I, like a lot of folks of color, went thru hell on the bird app. I've been hopeful about being here, but I've had some weathering interactions lately. It really drags me on the wrong day, but I'm trying to stay here.
08:01 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Jacqueline Smay
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In response to Bowerydoll.
Agreed. And I'll show my white lady bona fides by quoting When Harry Met Sally: "Someday you are going to have to learn not to express every thought you have the very second you have it."
07:23 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Bowerydoll
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In response to Jacqueline Smay.
🖐🏾❤🔥Amen to that. Thank you for listening.
07:26 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Diana Beach
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In response to Bowerydoll.
Agreed! If I learned one thing from the Bird app, it was the way white (women especially) would talk down to Black women without a second thought. Your tone, your words are important and so is sitting backing and LISTENING!!
07:16 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Bowerydoll
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In response to Diana Beach.
Thank you🖐🏾🔥
07:22 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Melissa
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Agreed, and I am an old white lady.
04:48 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Bowerydoll
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In response to Melissa.
🖐🏾❤🔥
04:52 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Lisa Mazzacone
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In response to Bowerydoll.
Well this is sounding too familiar. The most important thing I have learned from Black Twitter is to shut my mouth, listen and learn. Not everything is about us.
04:45 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Bowerydoll
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In response to Lisa Mazzacone.
Thank you for hearing and understanding 🖐🏾❤
04:54 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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Thee NW Mankiller Magpie
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In response to Lisa Mazzacone.
Exactly. We WP are too used to being the center of attention that we act badly when we're not.
07:39 PM - Mar 24, 2023
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