Josol
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I love Spoutible and the people here but I am starting to see more and more people upset at responses to their spouts. It has happened to me once or twice and it is hurtful. We don’t want to become that site where we attack each other for an innocent spout.
09:20 AM - Mar 03, 2024 (Edited)
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Geannie Bastian
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In response to Josol.
Yeah, I get a little bit of that too. The nature of sharing information publicly is that what one person find cathartic or funny might be distressing to someone else. And sometimes people will say so. Because it’s their public space too.

Taking that in without insult is a skill.
11:48 AM - Mar 03, 2024
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Josol
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In response to Geannie Bastian.
Good point!
11:54 AM - Mar 03, 2024
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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In response to Geannie Bastian.
As is responding to people in such a way as to not come off as insulting or condescending.
12:51 PM - Mar 03, 2024
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Hester Prynnecess, beat reporter
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In response to Josol.
i agree

at the same time, there is no way of really establishing a consensus about it. obviously people come to SM from really different places, with different motivations.

even the concept of what is “hurtful” varies enormously

so i think individually we have to act w the best faith possible
10:53 AM - Mar 03, 2024
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