dani
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Apropos nothing at all, good/well-intentioned people need to be given the latitude to be wrong. To find out that they were wrong, and to learn from being wrong. The pile-on’s that happen when a good person makes a mistake aren’t helpful beyond when someone apologizes, when they’ve acknowledged it.
09:47 PM - May 24, 2023
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Jay Carpenter🎸🎶
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In response to dani.
Hi Dani, after 60+ years living in the world we currently are there are no longer many things I know for certain but of those I do I know there is no shame in being wrong and even less in admitting it. Part of being a good person is the ability to say I was wrong and I am sorry. I've said it often.
10:26 PM - May 24, 2023
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dani
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Well that’s the thing isn’t it? It’s impossible to know everyone’s experience, and when you’re lucky enough to have someone tell you, you learn more. If there’s no space for people to learn, we’re doomed.
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10:29 PM - May 24, 2023
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Jay Carpenter🎸🎶
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In response to dani.
Recent experiences have taught me that people have become too thin skinned. Constructive criticism and good intensions are taken as insults. Instead of a learning experience people get offended when you point out they are just wrong and can back it up. If I am wrong I hope it gets pointed out.
10:36 PM - May 24, 2023
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Professor Kyle
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In response to Jay Carpenter🎸🎶.
Exactly this. It doesn't take a pile-on for someone to become defensive and stop listening – it's often just the one comment contradicting or correcting them.
10:46 PM - May 24, 2023
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