Isa-Lee Wolf
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Wishful thinking, but...If the press would stop using the bullshit phrase "falsely claimed" - we'd be all the better for it.

The word is LIE, assholes. Republicans LIE. About everything.
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April Sparkles
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
This might seem silly, but my mantra when I feel paralyzed at the thought of attempting something is:

“I can do anything for 15 minutes”

I set a timer, and if after 15 minutes I need to stop, I do. If I feel okay, I go another 15.

It’s nothing magical, but it makes difficult tasks manageable.💛
08:15 PM - Jan 20, 2024
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April Sparkles
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
This is a time of moments that leave you breathless and devastated.

Grief is a random companion that cycles through constant intrusion and sudden appearances.

I’m sorry finding counselling has proven difficult. I hope that resolves.

Remember to give yourself grace. Be gentle.

Can I help?
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Lawful Goodwill
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Now available from Lawful Goodwill: Cup of Studying -- 3 silver #dndtiktok #magicitems5e
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dani
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In response to sum kitteh.
I say this sincerely, have you considered following anyone funny?

You follow six accounts, none of which have ever suggested that they’ve got jokes.
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Becky A.
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
💜
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Meg Smythe
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending light and strength your way.
04:03 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Diana Tyler
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
I'm so sorry.
No, it's NOT fair that you have to suffer the loss of your beloved.
I hope it helps--even a little--to know that so many of us here care about what you're going through.
04:04 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Li Milla4
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
💙🫂💙
04:10 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Deb Kopaska
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
Contact a hospice near you. They offer bereavement services in communities to everyone. In person and group.

I’m a retired hospice nurse and I can’t imagine what you are dealing with at this time. Allow yourself to grieve and be messed up for a bit. Do important things, leave the rest.
03:44 PM - Jan 13, 2024
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Becky A.
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
Dreams as wish fulfillment, breaking your heart all over again. I'm so sorry you are going through this. So damn sorry.
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Hey guys.

No woman ever finds a sexually explicit image sent without request "amusing."

It is a form of sexual aggression with which we have many ways of coping, most of which have the goal of the situation not escalating.

It's not funny. It's a statement of "I will shut you up."
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Elle Faba Prefers Bears to Humans
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
Some of the toughest things are the simple ones like this. ♥️
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
I'm so sorry. 💔
10:35 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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Liz
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
I am so very sorry for your profound loss.
So sorry 💔💔💔
10:42 PM - Jan 12, 2024
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Barbara Maddux
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
{{HUGS}} Sending a virtual shoulder to lean on.
07:48 AM - Jan 05, 2024
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Cheryl
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
Absorb all the support from friends & family. Accept offers of help. Be kind to yourself.
08:32 AM - Jan 05, 2024
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Jo she/her Thompson
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
Sending you love, light and strength. I understand not wanting to get out of bed, wanting to scream, cry, punch something. Wanting to wake up from the nightmare. And I am so very sorry. I lost my 42yo husband in April, and I promise you it gets easier. It doesn't get easy, but it does get easier. 💔
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Elle Faba Prefers Bears to Humans
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♥️
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ecsbrooklyn
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❤️
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06:06 PM - Jan 08, 2024
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Marcie
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
Hugs.
06:07 PM - Jan 08, 2024
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Renee Tang
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In response to Spiritedrinoa.
Sending you a hug. Please take care and be gentle with yourself. ❤️🙏🏻
06:13 PM - Jan 08, 2024
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Mc Crispy
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In response to Mc Crispy.
8/ And above all, never EVER forget that there are people to reach out to. Especially here.

Sorry for getting so long-winded. 😊
06:45 PM - Jan 08, 2024
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Mc Crispy
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7/ way so that you can process what you just learned. When laughter comes, laugh with your whole body. When anger comes, get angry (a friend took me out to a junk yard with a baseball bat and let me swing at a car until I had broken everything I could break.). Every emotion has a message.
06:44 PM - Jan 08, 2024
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Mc Crispy
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6/ I cannot say what your grief path is going to look like specifically, but I can say, don't fight it. Let the emotions happen as they happen. Allow them to sit with you and listen to what they have to say, and then send them on their
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Mc Crispy
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In response to Mc Crispy.
5/ necessary to work with our grief (and we most assuredly have to work WITH it, because we cannot control it. We cannot dictate what the path is going to look like, how long it's going to last, nothing.), so we create a perpetual cycle of unpreparedness.
06:43 PM - Jan 08, 2024
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Mc Crispy
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In response to Mc Crispy.
4/ climbing up on the bed and just simply saying "I miss Uncle Barry" and hugged me while we both cried. Sometimes that's all we can do, and all that's necessary in that moment.

I wrote previously how we as a species avoid the issue of death and teaching the mechanics
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Mc Crispy
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In response to Mc Crispy.
3/ had questions about who he was beyond what they knew, how he died, why he died, etc. these were all questions I was grappling with myself.

I couldn't get out of bed some days to even shower or get a glass of water. I remember my youngest niece at the time (4) coming into my room and
06:42 PM - Jan 08, 2024
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Mc Crispy
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In response to Mc Crispy.
2/ nephews who were very close to him, some
very young, and I needed to navigate not just my grief, but somehow help them navigate theirs.

Sure their parents were available to them, but they hadn't experienced this before and were less capable than I was at helping them. They
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