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It’s been a day. My mother (85) is in the hospital refusing treatment for a bone infection in her leg. She still thinks that her other leg was amputated preemptively even though she literally had a bone falling out and her toes had fallen off. She thinks that she can beat this. They’ve told us…
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She is likely to pass away but in great pain. She’s signed a DNR. Of course she is a diagnosed narcissist so she also thinks they will ignore that and save her at the last minute.
We went to sell her house to find out that she took out a reverse mortgage years
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Ago because she thought her last amputation would kill her and she didn’t think she’d have to pay it back. It’s been years and the amount she owes has tripled. 🤦‍♀️
My RA is flaring from the stress.
All I can do is hope she goes peacefully.
She was not a good mother, makes things interesting.
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I’m at peace with the past but my siblings aren’t and there are a lot of feelings flying around. Today was all a bit awful.
Anyway thanks for listening, had to get that off my chest.
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Auntie CC .
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What a difficult situation. I feel for you, friend, and hope you have some better days coming your way.
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Laura Belknap
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Sending love and support.
11:06 PM - Apr 15, 2024
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Virginia Crochets and Stuff
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Thank you, I appreciate it. 💚
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Martha Alikacem
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Hopefully they will provide ample pain relief for her so she can pass on without suffering in excruciating fashion. I am really sorry for you, that is a tremendous amount of “stuff” to be dealing with. Families and siblings are most definitely complicated. Wishing you calm and peace.
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Virginia Crochets and Stuff
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Thank you!🙏
They said they’re giving her the highest amount of pain meds but she says it's not enough. I feel for them too, she’s a very difficult patient.
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Carol Lovely
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💙🙏🏻
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Isa-Lee Wolf
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I'm so sorry, that's a lot to deal with, and if she wasn't a good mother on top of it all, there are even more layers.

But you are doing your best, and you can only do what you can do. I hope tomorrow is a better day. 💙
10:55 PM - Apr 15, 2024
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🙏 I appreciate it.
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