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It’s been a day. My mother (85) is in the hospital refusing treatment for a bone infection in her leg. She still thinks that her other leg was amputated preemptively even though she literally had a bone falling out and her toes had fallen off. She thinks that she can beat this. They’ve told us…
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She is likely to pass away but in great pain. She’s signed a DNR. Of course she is a diagnosed narcissist so she also thinks they will ignore that and save her at the last minute.
We went to sell her house to find out that she took out a reverse mortgage years
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Ago because she thought her last amputation would kill her and she didn’t think she’d have to pay it back. It’s been years and the amount she owes has tripled. 🤦‍♀️
My RA is flaring from the stress.
All I can do is hope she goes peacefully.
She was not a good mother, makes things interesting.
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I’m at peace with the past but my siblings aren’t and there are a lot of feelings flying around. Today was all a bit awful.
Anyway thanks for listening, had to get that off my chest.
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Wow, family things can get so messy. Try to stay centered, protect yourself, it’s hard. Sending you positive energy.
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Professor Kyle
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Suzanne Dillon
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Sending you peace and strength. Please take care of yourself.
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Dee Incognito
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That a very rough day/weeks. I’m so sorry. Hoping for the best resolution possible.
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Char
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Oof. I'm so sorry you're all dealing with the stress & upheaval of this. As grim as it is, you're doing a great job navigating it from what I can tell. Sending tons of support your way! I hope you can get some rest - take extra good care of yourself 🩷
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Virginia Crochets and Stuff
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Thank you! It’s all so much. I need a good cry then bed!
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Hester Prynnecess, beat reporter
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sending wishes for calm & endurance for you
& hopes that your mother’s end arrives peacefully for everyone
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