Claudia Citro
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I would ask that the Men of Spoutible read this, twice. The women have always lived this.
04:46 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Robin Schwartz
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Men’s excuses for #sexualassault are always infuriating, but the ones quoted in this article go beyond that. Enraging isn’t even a strong enough word.
06:07 PM - Aug 20, 2023 (Edited)
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W4TERLILY
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Thanks for posting this. So much I simply didn't know. I ordered a birdie + for my granddaughters to keep them safe. If I ever hear the words "angel shot", I'll know to be an ally for whatever is necessary.
05:28 PM - Aug 20, 2023
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Iz Here
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In response to Claudia Citro.
I read this shortly after it was published. My response has not lessened a bit: This is non-concentual sex, better known as rape. Men caught doing this shd be prosecuted & sentenced to castration. Not the polite chemical kind, but the cut-their-fucking-nuts-off kind. This shd be law. Now.
11:59 AM - May 21, 2023
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Insley James
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In response to Iz Here.
I kinda like the threat of castration with a rusty fingernail file. ... just saying. 😏
05:39 PM - Aug 20, 2023
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Bethany Williamson
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In response to Claudia Citro.
If republicans want to stop abortions, they need to make this a crime.
11:49 AM - May 21, 2023
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Mats Eof
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In response to Bethany Williamson.
This behaviour should be criminal regardless of stance on abortion.
06:25 PM - Aug 15, 2023
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Millicent Williams
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In response to Claudia Citro.
This makes me sick...
05:04 PM - May 03, 2023
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Randy Resists
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Wow, especially prescient now-"With abortion access becoming more restrictive on a seemingly daily basis, U.S. lawmakers must take the necessary steps to criminalize this form of assault."
09:09 PM - Apr 27, 2023
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ann heffner
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In response to Claudia Citro.
took a couple of tried to get all the way through this. it can be hard to read, but it's so important. Even if you can't make it through, please pass the word. someone apologized to me once for not giving a trigger warning, doing that would have weakened it and I'm glad that they did not.
02:21 PM - Apr 27, 2023
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Laura Spouts N Spurts
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Never having heard the term does not change it from occurring. I am now thinking of all the things my girlfriends and I did when we traveled together. The drink babysitter being one and only ordering shots (we watched being poured) another..
02:01 PM - Apr 27, 2023
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Silke Spoutista
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Why are men’s diks given a mulligan? Repeatedly in many cases if the family is connected? Do none of their families have daughters? 😐🤔
08:52 PM - Apr 26, 2023
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Linda Eisenstein
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Infuriating that it is so common.
08:43 PM - Apr 26, 2023
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Jack Mcgraw
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Supreme Court of Canada has rightly ruled that this is sexual assault
02:29 PM - Apr 26, 2023
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Sneaky Burrito
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Isn't this why Julian Assange had sexual assault charges against him (in Sweden or something)?
01:45 PM - Apr 26, 2023
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lorraine aylward
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In response to Sneaky Burrito.
Yes,
03:37 PM - Apr 26, 2023
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Iván Valdés
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In response to Claudia Citro.
My wife has worked as a therapist mostly with rape/abuse victims during her career, and it will never ever never cease to shock me how horrible can abusers be, and how incredibly brave are those who fight daily with their trauma while seeking justice. Such a heartbreaking reality.
08:22 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Kathi Thomas
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Powerful
08:08 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Ed Anderson
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In response to Claudia Citro.
I wrote an article about this
07:53 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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bill doyle
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In response to Claudia Citro.
i understand that this is what the original - swedish - charges against julian assange referred to
07:43 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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John Shaft
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Having trouble posting this reply

Men - this is required reading

and google words you don't know the definition.

I did!!
07:40 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Matt Egan he/him/his
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In response to Claudia Citro.
I've heard of this from time to time, but didn't know it had a name, though I always found it disgusting and unforgivable. I also didn't realize how common it it. EVERY STATE needs to legislate against this, even better would be federal legislation so there aren't areas this is not a criminal case!!
07:27 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Mindy!!!
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In response to Matt Egan he/him/his.
It's super common. It's happened to almost everyone I know at least once, including me.
01:56 PM - Apr 26, 2023
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jerazo
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Should be required reading for men.
07:23 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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L Geisenest
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In response to Claudia Citro.
I thought of this story especially in juxtaposition to the news story of the pregnant woman told by hospital to go wait in the parking lot until she (medically) crashed.
07:15 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Matt Egan he/him/his
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In response to L Geisenest.
This is disgusting enough where the man isn't held responsible, adding it to women essentially being incubators for forced birthing makes it infinitely worse. This is a behavior that needs to be defined and legislated federally. THIS IS NOT ACCEPTABLE MY FELLOW MEN. I can't stress that part enough!!
07:31 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Julia Dalphin
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In response to L Geisenest.
Same. Fellow NPR listener here.
09:23 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Iz Here
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In response to Claudia Citro.
This is non-consensual sex, which is rape. It absolutely shd be criminalized & the punishment shd be castration. Not the chemical kind. The cut their fucking nuts off kind.
06:20 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Matt Egan he/him/his
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In response to Iz Here.
100% agreed that there essentially isn't a punishment severe for to handle this. I doubt castration, not chemical anyway, is going to be an option, but decades in prison might be a deterrent. With abortion being taken away, the punishment needs to be even more severe🤬🤬🤬
07:34 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Kelly Lincoln
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In response to Claudia Citro.
this is what Assange was accused of along with his refusal to stop
05:52 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Kenny Weinberg
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In response to Claudia Citro.
This needs to be screamed out loud.
Seriously WTF. Hello dads?
05:45 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Kenny Weinberg
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In response to Claudia Citro.
So wrong! Not my boys.
That’s beatdown material!
05:42 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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gdavidbrown
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Done.
05:38 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Bev Turner
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Now I know. Thank you for sharing.
05:28 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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NathanJCaboose
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In response to Claudia Citro.
I have heard of stealthing and it is absolutely a form of sexual assault.
05:26 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Drummer Girl
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Thank you for sharing this and getting the word out!
05:13 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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ann heffner
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In response to Claudia Citro.
ok. that touched off just enough ptsd that I couldn't even finish reading it. If you can, I think it's an important piece.
05:07 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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Pamela
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In response to Claudia Citro.
Wow! WTF is wrong with people? Seriously. I’m glad the author is able to advocate for change.
05:01 PM - Apr 25, 2023
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